This post is only indirectly about sex.. feel free to skip over it :) - part 1
Over the last few weeks Ellie and I have truly been experimenting with Polyamory. It is a fact that our relationship, from the start, was “open”, but until very recently we had not ventured outside of “casual sex” territory.
Our first casual sex experience was with a local friend. It was a first for both of us to have a threesome. He was an average build man with a nice body, more athletic than us. Ellie was the center of attention that night.
After many hours of sex, when we were all worn out, we moved (mostly naked) to the living room to play Mario Cart for an hour or so before we called it a night.
The next threesome was similar, Ellie was again the center of attention, but this time I mostly sat it out and watched them fuck. Ellie liked the intimacy this provided and had an easier time getting off.
A few months later Ellie and I made separate dates. I made a date with a girl, Brigid. We got to engage in a lot of the dating rituals, although they were compacted due to time constraints. We held hands and had a lot of physical contact before moving on to making out (which we did for a few hours).
Ellie’s date was mentioned on her site, and the details will not be repeated here.
After all of this we knew that we were comfortable enough with the situation between us to move on to dating other people. Even after this realization it took a number of months for us to start.
Recently, I have been dating three women, but until I become better acquainted with them they will remain nameless.
Ellie has been seeing a like number of men, and has mentioned that she would love to write about them sometime (when the inspiration strikes, one would guess).
That is just a synopsis of the myriad of baby-steps we took to come to the point that we are at now. Our relationship is stronger than ever, we are very much in love with one another, and the energy that these relationships are bringing into our domain is extraordinary.
Expect to hear more from both of us about these relationships as time passes. We are certainly looking forward to the coming adventures.